Posts tagged anonymous.

Anonymous submitted:

"Do you watch/have you seen the gymnastics show 'make it or break it'? If so, what things do you like and dislike about it?"

YESSS LOLOLOL! I honestly didn’t like it at all. That show was not even close to what an elite gymnast would go through, and while I realize it would be extremely hard/boring to show how an elite gymnast really lives, it looks like they didn’t put in any effort at all. The acting was bad, the way it was filmed was bad, the way the “routines” were formed was bad, you could tell the differences between the stunt doubles and the actors, YOU COULD SEE THE FOOT WIDE BEAM THEY USED (an actual beam is four inches wide)…everything about it was just so poorly executed, and of couuurse they had to randomly throw in child molestation, along with every negative stereotype of a gymnast there is. I liked that Kelly Parker’s hair ended up out of her Princess Leia buns and that she had a sort of nice character arc. Honestly she was a good actress, but nobody else really was. Everything was just SO unrealistic that it wasn’t even believable in terms of “okay I know this is only a TV show.” 

You should go here and read what Spanny has to say about it; her commentary is great and I agree with it all! Sorry if you really like the show or something, but being both an actor and a gymnast, I really couldn’t be spoon fed that crap.

Anonymous submitted:

"Part 2! However, I do find gymnastics to be incredibly empowering to women, don't get me wrong! As a follower of the sport, the respect I have for those athletes is never ending. That is why I chose to use it for a psychology final! Your opinion would be greatly appreciated :)"

Hello! :) I do understand what you are talking about. Artistic Gymnastics as a sport is judged by the Code of Points, which is updated every Olympic cycle, or every four years by the FIG, or Federation Internationale de Gymnastique. The CoP itself only addresses appearance on the topic of appropriate attire such as leotards, the no jewelry except for stud earrings rule, etc. Nowhere in the CoP is there a section on makeup or a gymnast’s personal appearance, meaning that a gymnast’s score cannot and will not be influenced because of those reasons. Judges are there to judge gymnastics, not a gymnast’s hairstyle, body shape, or makeup. 

The public, however, is another issue. Humans judge on appearance first; that’s just the way we’re wired. They see your face before they see you perform and, unfortunately, that means a lot when the vast majority of the public does not know the intricacies of gymnastics or how to judge it. Because of that, they go back to the one thing they know how to judge: their appearance. They may not know that gymnast x performed better than gymnast y, but they DO know that gymnast x is prettier and has better makeup and a prettier leotard design than gymnast y, so that is what they will fall back on. Even if gymnast y did better, it’s common for the public to say something along the lines of, “Well, at least gymnast x LOOKS better.” 

Of course, with all female athletes, the gymnasts are “supposed” to look good. It doesn’t matter to the public that they’re performing the hardest skills in the most difficult sport in the world at the Olympic games; they have to look exceptionally beautiful and perfect while doing so. An example of this would be when Gabrielle Douglas won the Women’s Individual All Around at the Olympics, and the internet suddenly exploded with horrible comments about her hair. Gabrielle Douglas is African American, and was chastised by many for the texture of her hair, the style it was in, and that she wasn’t wearing a wig or a weave. Her accomplishment of being the first African American woman to win an Olympic AA title, a HUGE accomplishment, didn’t matter; her HAIR did. 

Even the fans that know gymnastics criticize gymnast’s looks. Shawn Johnson, the winner of the silver medal in the 2008 AA, claimed that Nastia Liukin only won the gold medal in the same competition because of her body type. Johnson is short and muscular, while Nastia is tall for a gymnast and willowy. We still make fun of the Chinese team’s habit of always wearing blue eyeshadow. We have whole blogs dedicated to leotards we do and don’t like. We have confessions blogs where people send in hate confessions about certain gymnasts’ body types, say certain gymnasts look better with or without bangs, etc. We even hold up Mustafina’s Olympic makeup like it’s the holy grail. Even Mckayla Maroney said that the gymnasts definitely “compete” with each other when it comes to whose makeup and leotard is better.

Female athletes are held to a standard of perfection that nobody can achieve. I agree with you that we must try our hardest to reach this standard, and even as we do so, we are still judged and deemed “unworthy.” There is no way to satisfy every single person, so the athlete is really put in between a rock and a hard place. Female athletes do not get nearly as much recognition for the extreme feats they accomplish as they deserve, and it’s all because they have to not only compete in their sport, but also for the audience’s attraction.

Anonymous submitted:

"I was wondering if you would help me with a psychology project! You seem to be an advocate of both women's rights and gymnastics. From my own experience with gymnastics, the need for immaculate hair and makeup on part of the female athletes seems to be parallel to some of society's standards for women. We can't have a hair out of place unless we wish to be judged and deemed unworthy similar to the way a gymnast is docked for any physical flaws. Would you agree or disagree, and why or why not?"

Part 1

Anonymous submitted:

"Ali strolled up to me with a smile,extending her hand out to me with a smile,"You need any help?" she joked and I smiled back, gripping her hand in mine and climbing my way up to a sitting position. Her hand seemed frail, but at the same time, strong, I was surprised that she was even able to help pull me up. "Thanks. The grass was just like really comfy." Ali laughed, leaning back and letting the action take a hold of her. Her hair shook in red ringlets around her, looking aflame in the sun."

BLESS YOUR SOUL THIS IS SO FANTASTIC! :’)

Anonymous submitted:

"Okay, this may sound really pathetic, but I've been having anxiety attacks over an English essay that we have to do in class. I think it might because the teacher is really harsh and intimidating, but I don't know how to calm down. As I already know the topic, should I write the essay this weekend and memorise it? The essay is on To Kill a Mockingbird :(."

That’s not pathetic at all; please don’t think of yourself that way! :) I think at least doing an outline so you know exactly what points you want to hit is a good idea. That will serve as a roadmap, you know? If you forget where you’re going or get anxious, you can remember what point you wanted to make next, and keep going. This might sound weird, but something that would happen to me in school when we were taking standardized tests is that the teachers would sometimes give us gum or mints to help concentrate. I always have mints with me, and it’s kind of a good way to channel your anxiety into something physical so you can focus. Since the teacher isn’t very kind, another option for the future would be to talk to your counselor to see if you can get longer time for tests and in-class essays. I think it’s a little too soon to do this for something that is happening on Monday, though, especially since it’s the end of the school year. You could also get one of those rubbery grips for your pencil and squeeze it/play with it in your other hand as you write. Keep a water bottle with you and take sips. Take deep breaths in and out. Remember that you know this book, and even if you blow this essay, it’s only one essay in one class in your entire life. This doesn’t dictate your worth, and everything will be okay even if you don’t do as well as you’d like.

You can do this! I hope this helps :)

Anonymous submitted:

"Hi. I badly need advice. This might not be really that much of a big deal to you, but it has been bothering me for aeons and I just wanted to let it all out. I'm in love with my best friend. He knows, and my feelings are all unrequited. We don't talk about it at all bc it will only make things awkward and complicated. The problem now is that we're drifting apart. It pained me to know he doesn't like me back, but it hurts a gazillion times more to lose him as my best friend, too. Irdk what to do."

I would first sit down and talk to him friend to friend. Keep it purely about your friendship and tell him what you told me: that the worst thing would be to lose him as a friend. Tell him you understand the awkward position he’s in and why he wouldn’t want to be friends, but that you really cherish his presence in your life. If he doesn’t want to stay friends, a break may be a good thing. Honestly, the harder you try to hold onto something that isn’t working, the worse it will hurt when it falls apart and even more tension is put on things. I say a break from the friendship would be good because it would give you a chance to live your live for YOU and not for him. Respect and love yourself enough to end things that no longer serve you or cause you to grow or be happy as a person. Respect yourself enough to know what you deserve, and don’t settle for less. When you settle for less than what you deserve, you end up with less than what you settled for. If he doesn’t want to be friends and be the person you deserve, it’s okay to take a step back and breathe, even cry. I’m not saying that any of this will be easy or painless, but doing what’s best for you as a person is worth it. You deserve to be happy, and if he’s not willing to help with that, take your happiness into your own hands and start anew. Do things that you like and that make you feel fulfilled and happy. Spend time with people that make you laugh. Read books and watch tv shows that you like. Take walks, write in your journal, and listen to music. Eat good food and take long baths. Take care of yourself, and one day you’ll catch yourself smiling and realize you’re happy.

I hope this helps you. I’ll always be here to help :)

Anonymous submitted:

"Jeez dont write so dam much under a pic nd maybe youll get more than 87 fuckin notes"

I blog to express, not to impress. If I get notes, that’s great, if I don’t, that’s fine too, because the simple act of writing fulfills me.

Also, it’s at 122 notes now, so I guess your argument is invalid ;)

Anonymous submitted:

"I don't know why people are so keen to accuse you of "blind hatred." That is not your style at all."

I don’t know Anon, I just don’t know. Thank you for sending this to me! :) 

Anonymous submitted:

"Jamie"

HOW DO I EVEN CHOOSE?!

Okay well last year during our spring break, we dropped in on rehearsal for the musical at our old high school because people missed us and we were on break. We were watching them rehearse, and this one group of girls had to be this kind of sexy/hot girl “clique” and saunter in, BUT THEY COULDN’T DO IT so our old director had Jamie show them how it’s done!

Anonymous submitted:

"Why are you so harsh toward republicans? By doing so you just ad to the ignorance that is far too persistent in the country. People who hate someone or an entire party simply because of their belief system is honestly sad, and does nothing but degrade the country. Foster an environment of compromise and be accepting of different opinions instead of consistently hating on things you don't agree with. Just a suggestion."

Are you not hating on something you don’t agree with right now?

Honestly, I don’t blindly hate republicans, which is what you are suggesting. I have criticized people of the republican party, yes, but I have also criticized those of the democratic party as well. What I have posted here has never been blind hatred or criticism due to one’s political affiliation, and for you to think so suggests that you don’t know me and haven’t been here long. I’m going assume you took offense to the umbrella post, which is the most recent political post I have touched. Nowhere in that post was any political party mentioned. You assumed that the person who was anti-Obama was a republican, even though a democrat or someone of another party could have been equally as upset and interpreted the umbrella holding as something condescending as well. As for the one I posted the other night with a picture comparing Obama to Nixon simply because they made the same pose, I think that speaks for itself. 

I’d suggest that you stop judging me before asking and finding out my actual political views, because that too adds to the ignorance you have mentioned, which I do agree does degrade the country. If you do find out my political opinions and don’t agree with them, I would again suggest you follow your own advice and be accepting of different opinions which have been posted on my personal blog. 

Just a suggestion.

Anonymous submitted:

"Georgia? Elizabeth? Tell me stories"

I don’t know anybody named Georgia :( 

I went to my friend’s birthday party when I was little, and her older sister Elizabeth was helping out with one of the party games. What I remember of the game was that we had to guess what was inside a brown paper bag, and the first question she would ask us listed three options, and one of them was “utensil.” The question was something like “Candy, toy, or utensil?” but I don’t remember what the other two options were. BUT THE WORD UTENSIL. I didn’t know what it was! We were little kids and I was just like WTF DOES “UTENSIL” MEAN? WHAT IS A UTENSIL?? So when it got to my turn, I was thinking, but I guess I wasn’t going fast enough for her, so she asked the question again, and I was just like, “uhhhhhh” and she asked it AGAIN, which just freaked me out even more and I was like I DON’T KNOW!! and just blurted out “utensil” because all I could think about was “WHAT IS A UTENSIL?!” lol

Anonymous submitted:

"Jessica or Amy (Aimee, any spelling)"

Jessica was in my Acting For The Camera class with me. One day, our professor hands out this script that we’re going to cold read, so we all start looking it over.

It was the scene we had chosen to do for our final project.

Amy has been my friend since I moved here. We were in choir together in middle school and high school. In our junior year, our choir ended up doing this African song sung in Swahili, and we sung the opening solo as a trio with one of our other friends, Arame. I thought it was kind of funny because she and I are both redheads so we were literally the whitest people in that choir, but you best know the three of us sounded good!

Anonymous submitted:

"what apps do you use to edit pictures?"

Afterlight, Picmonkey, Pixlr. Stuff like that. Nothing high-tech at all! :P

Anonymous submitted:

"Can I ask, how did you and your ex arrange to do that photoshoot together? Did he know that it portrays him so (deservingly) badly? When you called him out for abusing you, did he deny it? Are you guys completely out of contact now? If you don't want to talk about it anymore, I understand."

I’m gonna answer this in bullet points because there are so many questions so I can keep my answers clear :)

  • I told him I had an idea for my philosophy final, explained it to him, and asked if he’d do it with me. He said yes. He actually liked my idea and enjoyed doing it. 
  • Yes, he did deny it. I was told that this was merely “his truth” and because of that, he had to tell me these things. I deserved it, and I was an awful influence on his life who made the world a bad place. He doesn’t like the word “abuse” and doesn’t think that that’s what he did. Every time he’s “admitted” to abuse, he has retracted the statement very soon afterwards. 
  • Yes, we don’t speak unless we have to. I’m very uncomfortable talking to him. 
Anonymous submitted:

"When I was younger was bullied, right? And it got to the point where my mom had to come to school and tell my teacher that the room was filled with little shits and that I was coming home crying everyday. I really didn't want her to because I just thought she would make it worse. I didn't want anymore attention on me than I already had. I was right, but not because of my mom, technically, but because the teacher was like, "EVERYONE STOP BULLYING HER. HER MOM IS WORRIED." And pointed at me."

Gawwwd I am so sorry! The public school system’s ways of dealing with bullying are worse than subpar; they make the situation worse. Both my parents work in the school district, so I’ve had a lot of experience with this stuff from both sides. Teachers should be taught how to safely deal with these situations. I hope kids grew up and stopped being little bullies to you!